Weiner Roast 2
Jay Leno:
I recently listened to this episode of the Diane Rehm show, in which a panel of Beltway insiders discussed Congressman Weiner’s twits. (You can listen or read the transcript at the link.)
There wasn’t much new in the discussion. The Congressman has brought so much dumb to the table that one of the panelists reported using his behavior as a tool to teach the family teenagers that the internet is, indeed, a public place.
What most struck me, though, was the smug sanctimonious self-righteousness of the panel as it was shocked! shocked! SHOCKED! at someone’s doing something stupid while under the influence of male hotness delusion syndrome and at his attempts to deny it.
In America, parents can’t talk with their kids about sex; hell, they can’t even admit to it.
It is not surprising that someone would have difficulty talking to a howling pack of press jackals.
Clearly, none of the panel had ever succumbed to the temptation to do something stupid while under the influence of hormones or attempted to deny it when caught out.
Americans’ attitudes towards all things sexual are seriously bent, a sewer of fantasies in an uptight suit, glorifying hyper-sexual imagery, vicariously celebrating celebutards and their sex tapes, snickering at snookis, while quivering in fear and fiction and denial when confronting actual sexuality in any form. (See the note below.)
Congressman Weiner was stupid. If he were a run-of-the-mill employee in private industry or civil service, he likely would have been disciplined, possibly fired, by now. Indeed, by the time this posts, he may well be gone.
This does not make the public circus any less stupid.
Daniel Denvir addressed thia at the Guardian. An excerpt:
Asides:
(This is the blue plate special; it comes with two asides)
In a tangentially related article, Suzanne Moore points out what’s behind the hyper-sexual imagery I mentioned above.
It’s not libido; it’s marketing, marketing to and via libido. Sex sells, even as it is illegal to sell sex:
Also, this “I’m going to rehab now” is no more than today’s version of “I must have been possessed”–blame-shifting.
Except possibly in the case of psychopaths, “sex addiction” has become a synonym for “getting away with bad behavior just because I can.” The beneficiaries of a diagnosis of “sex addiction” are “sex addiction therapists.”
The Note Below:
I have nothing against sexual imagery.
Indeed, I quite appreciate sexual imagery.
Just don’t pretend it’s something else, like a swimsuit review, when it is clearly what it is.
I do have something against willful ignorance salted with crocodile tears.
June 12, 2011 at 10:40 am
Apparently, some people that acquire wealth, power, and/or fame come to believe that they are above the rules of common decency. The ranks of public figures with questionable ethics, morals and judgment is growing daily and mostly through the courtesy of modern social media. How are they thinking? Or, with what are they thinking?
June 12, 2011 at 11:02 am
Thanks for visiting.
I disagree to this extent:
What wealth and power–and cyber-networks–do is expand the size of the playing field and, in the case of power, reduce the likelihood that someone will protest. To the extent that the wealthy and powerful get away with it, they are also more likely to do it again.
You can see the same behavior in a two-bit dive bar or a neighborhood block party, but with less reach and less impunity.
The other thing that cyber-networks do is record the misbehavior for posterity. But folks don’t think of that when the hormones flow.
I’ve found that misconduct eventually comes back to haunt. It’s just that “eventually” is sometimes a long, long time.